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But this isn’t anything new, this is something I talk about all the time.

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The sad thing about this is that I believe that culture and the society we live in play a huge part in this.

She probably couldn’t help but think of the dreaded ‘what would people say’ if she had then left her husband and when these ‘people’ found out, what impact that would have on her and her family’s lives. I haven’t been through it myself, so I would never be about to understand it fully.

She explained that she had been brought up to be a strong woman all her life, so hearing how she reacted uncharacteristically to everything that happened after marriage, just didn’t make any sense to me. But when you really think about it, unless you’ve been through it, you have no idea what goes through someone’s mind when in a situation like that.

From what I can understand, you love someone with all your heart and soul, and thought they loved you too.

You can’t show that you’re suffering, so you have to keep on, keeping on.

You need your loved ones to think that you’re doing well, and you need outsiders to think that you’re living the life!You see and hear all sorts – you learn from other people’s stories and pain.I really respect her for speaking out and sharing her pain with strangers, because it helps people, who are suffering in silence, realise that there is hope out there.And I wasn’t shocked to find that I could relate to practically everything she said; from how she felt the pressures to be a good daughter and not let her parents down, to wanting to do what makes her happy whilst being respectful of her religion.It was evident that parents enforce the rules of culture quite heavily, to the point that it overtakes the importance of religion.Everything that is wrong with this culture’s expectations on marriage is in this story.

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