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American men will rush to get you in bed as quick as possible, while European men don’t appear to have the same rush (or desperation). European men don’t ‘date’ – in the formal way that Americans are used to.The types of dates seen in movies – the formal ask, the fancy dinner and the entire dance that ensues simply doesn’t exist in the European mindset, in fact, the word “dating” isn’t even a part of their lexicon. Unlike American culture, where there’s almost a rite of passage which takes two people from “hooking up” to “seeing each other” to “dating” to “exclusive”, these labels just aren’t a focus or concern for European men. Rather, the mentality is, “I like you, I want to see you, and if it’s enjoyable, let’s keep seeing each other”.I never thought that the cultural background of a dating prospect would make much of a difference when it came to relationships.

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” that I was feeling disconnected from her and other girls, that I couldn’t quite bring myself around to feeling strongly for a girl. After learning about Game, how to make girls fall for me and to keep them interested, my heart has got colder and colder.

I stay away from lovey dovey moments, I keep the compliments at a low and I keep my emotions very much wrapped up. It’s what they need to stay interested and to keep chasing you.

The moment you drop that frame, it all starts to go downhill for you with an English girl as she tries to take advantage of the situation by reaching for the power.

This is the frame I maintain with all girls since my oneitis, and it’s worked very well for me.

Now, when I discuss the differences between European and American, I’m referring to a mindset. American men on the other hand, tend to be goal oriented, with the aim of getting laid.

You can very well be born in America but have a more “European” mindset and vice versa. Perhaps this ‘score mentality’ is for bragging rights, perhaps it’s for validation so they can feel wanted and desired, or perhaps it’s a pure ego play.

They grow up developing friendships with the opposite sex and in turn, develop more empathy and understanding of the opposite sex.

In American culture, there is a clear segregation of the sexes, boys play with boys and do boy things and girls do the same.

The dynamic may or may not move into a serious relationship, but they are not trying to gather other options or back up plans in case it doesn’t. Americans (both men and women) have been socialized to play games, to act unavailable, to wait a particular amount of time before texting back…

There are a set of ritualized rules that are abided by in American dating culture, and if you don’t play within them, you are labeled as desperate or needy or undesirable.

I, as I mentioned before, was quite cold about the situation and said that if she left my life the next day then it wouldn’t affect me too much.

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