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Recognize that his resistance may be to marrying you. He "Doesn't Know" When my friend quit her job, moved to her boyfriend's city, moved in together and started looking at rings, she thought he was The One.So when months later she asked, "Do you want to marry me?You've been dating for a year or two (or three) and keep fending off the "so when are you two going to get married" question from well-meaning friends and family. He eventually broke up with me, and frankly, I'd like to thank him for it.
I made excuses for his behavior but took little responsibility for my own.
He didn't want to get married, not then, and not to me. It's not about the proposal story or a ring on your finger.
And you'll thank him years from now for not doing it. He's Evasive About the Future It is generally not a good idea to discuss marriage and babies on the first date -- unless you're on "The Bachelorette" where these uncomfortable conversations are a requirement.
But if you and your guy talk about jobs, careers, rent, trips, family and holidays, you should trust the relationship enough to discuss your future.
If I hadn't been trying to change his mind, I would have realized his mind was exactly where he wanted it to be. It's about two people falling in love and wanting to build a life together.
If you're deeply unhappy with someone but you think his proposal will change things, it won't.
While there is a time and place to focus on a career or education, to constantly hear "I'm not in a place to marry anyone right now" is confusing and frustrating. Also, it repeatedly tells the woman that this decision isn't hers.
Instead it is when he is "ready." Who really knows the hard times couples may face together in the future?
Trust me, you don't want to talk someone into wanting to marry you.
If he's giving you signs that he doesn't want to marry you, heed them.
Life isn't black and white, but if you have some doubts, these are indicators that he's not in a place to marry you.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating